how would i make something like this?


It's made with PHP (which you can't use on forumotion) but you can do something similar using AJAX. I will try to have a look for you.

how about this? | its made using jquery User interface

Do you want to use it in an HTML page?
This won't be possible with AJAX - What AJAX generates by an user is only visible to that user!

my site is custom made and i host it on a ftp server i don't use forumotion so how could i use this for php?

Oh well that's easy... I'll try and dig out the code later. I had it once when I was adding it to my forum but I lost it. :/